How does one succeed in life?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why can’t my wife just accept the fact that I’m going to cheat?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Ask yourself:

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

Are there legal obligations to report the known whereabouts of a missing person that doesn’t want to be found?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Atheists who said that reading the Bible made them an atheist, how? Literally there are millions of people who read the Bible daily and still believe in God. So why say that? I mean unless you want to sound smart & edgy

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Have you ever had sex with sisters?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.